Essays · Catapult · 2025
Hello Stranger
Musings on Modern Intimacies
Witty and winkingly playful, Hello Stranger explores modern queer romance and the expansive possibilities of ephemeral intimacies. At once a personal excavation and a broad cultural critique, it moves from online sexting and real-life cruising to divorces and throuples, asking which intimacies we crave, value, and too often wear down with familiarity.
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- Indie Next List pick, January 2025
- Reviewed in The New York Times Book Review, the Los Angeles Times, Kirkus and Publishers Weekly
- A must-read: Alta Journal, InsideHook and Queerty
- Audiobook read by the author, from Tantor Media
“A persuasive and well-researched disquisition on the edifying and seductive potential of those we don’t yet know.”Jake Nevins, The New York Times Book Review
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